Milly’s Smiles Testimonials
Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records- William Arthur Ward
Milly’s Smiles is a charity that is very close to my heart, an amazing organisation that continues to inspire each & every new day.
I first met Milly in 2011 where my job as a Community Policeman entailed a visit to Our Lady & St. Hubert’s RC Primary School in Great Harwood and a cheeky smile & “high five” meant I’d made a new friend.
I made a return visit in 2012 for a meeting with teacher, Mrs Hammerton where we formed a Road Safety initiative to which Milly would eventually join as one of the 6 Road Safety Ambassadors in 2014.
Unfortunately within a month or two, Milly fell ill and was diagnosed with leukaemia and coincidentally, it was the same time I moved to the Accrington station.
Milly bravely started her treatment and returned to school whenever her health allowed and she was given a “wish list”, I must have made a big as impression on her as she did on me for Milly wanted me to visit the school once more for which I readily agreed.
I was determined to honour this wonderful girl’s memory and eventually did a sponsored diet for Lent. I was given overwhelming support by not just family and friends but the local community and businesses too, all no doubt equally touched by what Millie’s Smiles stood for. Over £1,083 was raised for the charity, such was the strength of the cause and it really touched all our hearts.
Through all of this I’ve become good friends with Milly’s mother, Lorraine and I could see in her eyes, the desire to pay homage to her lovely daughter and to aid other children and parents in any way she could and with Milly’s Smiles, they are doing exactly that and I am extremely honoured to have played a little part with my fundraising.
As with any charity, the public’s goodwill and kindness is paramount to their continued success so please support Milly’s Smiles if only to make a little girl in heaven smile even brighter. Thank you.
PC Dave (Dave Render)
I consider myself lucky to be able to give the families something – Staff Nurse Ward 3B
I just wanted to let you know about the numerous positive feedback reports I have had from new families re the Millys Smiles Bags, as someone who has worked in Oncology for quite a long time (31yrs) I consider myself very lucky to be able to give the families something during those first few days after diagnosis when they are experiencing something so awful, At such a difficult time it is so nice to be able to bring even just a little comfort, It isn’t usually until a few days after receiving the bags that families show their appreciation, I know the reason for this is that initially they are in a state of shock after those first few days they really are grateful.
It is such a lovely feeling to make someone’s life a little bit easier. Thanks Mary.
Thank You for what you do
We arrived on ward 84 at the end of November 18 and like many others our world was turned upside very quickly with the diagnosis of our 5 year old girl with Leukaemia (ALL).
It is now mid Feb 19 and we are still in the midst of a very tough battle due to experiencing complications with our treatment, as I write this we remain in hospital and have only been able to have 4 days at home in 2.5 months.
The pack we received from Milly’ Smiles helped us get through the early days on ward 84 and we still use the gifts everyday. Our daughter loves the blanket and the quality of the items in the whole bag is fantastic.
We are making progress now and I want to thank you for what you do – I have registered on the website and once we are though this I will add Milly’s Smiles to my supported charities to help make things easier for future families on ward 84, which is the least we can do to repay the kindness you have shown us.
Thank you so much and keep up the good work.
Having been given heartbreaking news my six year old son had leukaemia I found it difficult to think of anything else at this time. To receive the Milly Smiles bag whilst in for our long stay full of necessity’s really was a massive help.
I’m really touched that a family who have experienced the loss they have, continue to support other family’s who are receiving devastating news each day. I love receiving the updates how the charity are doing and how so many people are continuing to support each other. It’s given me great inspiration and want to help others in similar situations and to remind me how grateful I am of all the help/support and love we receive from all the staff at RMCH, friends/family’s, strangers, charity’s such as Milly’s Smiles give us.
I have enjoyed looking through the website and getting a glimpse of the gorgeous girl Milly was and how she has helped so many children and families with needed items/support we continue to receive. Any help and support others can offer this charity would be amazing so they can continue to really help family’s at the times in our lives we really need this.
Thank you Milly’s Smiles – forever grateful xxx
Help when we needed it most!
We cannot thank Milly’s Smiles enough. On our 3 year olds day of diagnosis we were blissfully unaware of our impending doom and the road that lay ahead!
We turned up at RMCH that day with nothing. No means of washing, not knowing what we may or may not need and Milly’s Smiles took that worry away.
During our toughest days my boy snuggled his blanket giving him comfort and reassurance!
For myself the pen and paper were my saviour … I wrote anything and everything down and I really think it helped me cope with our entire life changing. I cannot thank you all enough for everything you guys have done and continue to do for families in the northwest!
Your are all amazing!
Love the Anderton’s xxxx
The bags provided by this non-profit-making charity provide are filled with items which, from their own experience, go some way towards easing the burden carried by parents of newly-diagnosed children. In addition to holding down responsible full-time jobs, the organisers work tirelessly to help parents going through the worst experience of their lives. I am proud to be of some little help by knitting Rainbow Elephants and by spreading the word of this fabulous charity. I can think of no better charity to support, even if it is in such a small way.
The magic bag
I will never forget the day my granddaughter was diagnosed with stage 4 neuroblasoma,during all the turmoil and upset a nurse appeared with a big blue bag.At the time you have no idea that the contents,will be such a massive help during your fight,it’s an amazing help providing the little things that are needed on an every day basis.Thank you for providing help to all those unfortunate to be in our position you’re a star Lorraine and team and I genuinely mean that❤️
A bag full of much needed essentials
When we first arrived on Ward 84 at RMCH with our 5 weeks old daughter Jorgie Mae and shortly after received a diagnosis of Acute Myeloid Leukaemia we did not really know what had hit us. Around that time when received a Milly’s Smiles bag and to be honest at first we probably didn’t think too much about it, not that we weren’t grateful but probably because of the devastating news we had just received but over the coming weeks and months we found the bag to be full of much need essentials and a great help. It’s wonderful what Milly’s Smiles charity do by bringing that bit of normality and comfort to families through their bags. Thank you.
It had everything I needed before I even knew what I’d need.
My 3yr old son was diagnosed with a brain tumour 12 weeks ago after an MRI to identify the cause of his balance issues was carried out. We were sent by ambulance there and then to Alder Hey in order that he could have an operation the following day. I traveled in the ambulance with him, while my husband had to go home to pick up our 5yr old and 1yr old from school and nursery, I had literally nothing except my handbag, two nappies and half a packet of wet wipes and our coats.
To say we were in shock is an utter understatement, he wasn’t poorly just a little bit wobbly on his feet I was and still am completely numb, we all are.
That night I considered the possibility that they must have got it wrong and they would realise their mistake and send us home, unfortunately they hadn’t made a mistake.
A lovely nurse came into our room and left a Millie’s Smiles duffle bag, it contained absolutely everything I needed from a soft blanket and neck support to toiletries and snacks and what I’ve since discovered the most vital piece of kit any oncology parent will need! An ear thermometer. Our son is current halfway through intensive chemotherapy and the duffel bag is packed ready for emergency hospital stays in between treatments.
From the bottom of my heart thank you, you are helping families get through the darkest of days. This duffle bag is the most used item we have been gifted since his diagnosis, please keep doing what you’re doing xxxx
A little bit of comfort when you most need it
Millys smiles are amazing
Some people will think – what are you talking about it’s just a bag!!!
No it’s not.That blue bag is with you through the worst journey any parent could ever imagine and when you receive it in the first days of arriving on ward 84 it becomes like a comfort blanket, a little peace of normal life given to you when everything is anything but normal.
The thought that goes into the content of the bags and the work that must go into raising funds and getting everything together to get them to the hospital is an inspiration to us all sharing this journey with our warrior children and I know everyone I’m aware of that has a Milly’s bag is extremely grateful for the recognition of the situation we have been put in and the little things that make life on the ward a little more bearable.
Thank you Milly’s Smiles you are fab xxx
Such a worthwhile charity 🌈
I love this charity, I am in awe of the work that goes into it and have huge respect for those involved. Lovely Milly was at school with my own children which is how I know about it. I love how the bags it provides takes care of the seemingly little but essential things needed by families going through a cancer diagnosis with their child. It shows someone cares and understands and wants to help smooth the way a little. A beautiful charity in memory of a beautiful girl 🌈
Nothing compares to losing a child, but when Milly was poorly and wanted to make a difference for other families put in to this awful situation, she came up with the idea of a bag that has various items in for everyone, and hoped it would comfort all the family and help to make them realise they are not alone. Unfortunately Milly’s Smiles had to continue her wishes without her. But the continued support of Milly’s family and fantastic team of people wanting to help in what ever way possible, the bags are delivered regularly to the hospital.x
Please support this amazing cause get involved and let’s support this great work done by Everyone.
A hug in a bag.
When we arrived on ward 84 with the most devastating news about my lovely 11 year old having cancer. We were totally devastated, shell shocked and didn’t know how we would get through it all. There was waiting for us a Milly bag. Thoughtfuly put together with all home comforts as well as practical
Items. It was like a hug in a bag. Just the thought that someone had been in our shoes and knew what we would need on that darkest day was the biggest comfort.
Thank you so much for our Milly’s smiles bag! The head rest in itself is the most useful item I have ever had for my son! We use it to help him sit, to avoid pressure on his belly when he’s doing tummy time as he has a gastrostomy and has had multiple abdominal tumours removed, and we prop him up when he’s laid on his play mat on a feed this allows him to play on the floor without being sick. The rest is a bonus! Thanks 💕
Katharine Duncan – Ward 84 mum (May 2017)
When we arrived on ward 84 @ RMCH. I felt my world had ended. Our stay was a planned admission but for the 5 days post diagnosis before coming into hospital my brain stopped working so when I unpacked I found I had forgotten many essentials. We also started our journey in October and the ward was cold at times.
The bag we received from milly’s smiles was amazing!!! It contained so much of what we needed and also so much stuff we didn’t know we needed until it was there. Our daughter still uses her millys blanket daily 7 months into our journey. The hot drink cup with a lid became so well used as the amount of brews you make is unbelievable!
Little things like pen and paper to keep notes as my brain couldn’t store the information was an enormous help. For families coming into the ward with no warning they are invaluable and have helped them so much
We can’t thank you all enough for supporting this worthwhile charity xx
We arrived with nothing in a whirlwind like all parents on the day of diagnosis. Such a thoughtful gesture at such a difficult time is a real help. Amy still uses her stripy blanket every day.
My daughter took strength from this bag
Gives a little comfort at such a difficult time for families. My daughter took strength from this bag and gave her a focus so she could raise money to help and I can only thank you all for that. Well done to all involved but especially Milly’s mum for having the strength to do a memory in Milly’s name.