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Our 31st Delivery to Alder Hey

Today we delivered another 20 Milly Bags to Ward 3B at Alder Hey Children’s Hospital.

We had an extra surprise for the families on the ward, as earlier last week, we were donated some gorgeous Tropic self-care products by a lovely lady called Fran, with the help of her very generous customers.

Fran’s friend Jo received a Milly Bag when her daughter, Emilia, was undergoing cancer treatment at Alder Hey. After seeing the difference the Bag made to Jo and her family, Fran wanted to give something back to Milly’s Smiles and provide a little additional gift for other parents and carers going through such an incredibly difficult time.

Every parent currently staying on the inpatient unit received one of the beautiful gift bags, and we were also able to give them to several of the teenagers on the ward. They absolutely loved them. We also left some for the wonderful nurses who work so hard every single day.

Thank you so much, Fran. It was really lovely to see just how much your kindness was appreciated by everyone.

While we were there, we also had the absolute pleasure of meeting beautiful little Lexie, who very kindly shared some of the cake she had baked for her baby dolls with us. (Mum has kindly given us permission to share this gorgeous photograph).

While we were there, we also had the absolute pleasure of meeting beautiful little Lexie, who is currently receiving treatment on the ward. She very kindly shared some of the cake she had baked for her baby dolls with us. Her (Mum has kindly given us permission to share this gorgeous photograph of Lexie with her cake).

Thank you, Lexie, for making our visit even more special, thank you to everyone at Alder Hey, especially Louise for always making us feel so welcome, and a huge thank you to all our supporters for making each Milly Bag possible.

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Our 68th delivery to Ward 86 – RMCH

Today Graeme and Mark headed over to Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital with 20 Milly Bags for Ward 86, bringing their stock levels back up after a particularly busy few weeks.

Just over a week ago the ward got in touch to let us know they were running very low on bags. Graeme was away on holiday, so our lovely trustee Kath very kindly stepped in and took 5 bags onto the ward for us while she was visiting her nephew, making sure there were enough to keep them going until we could arrange our usual delivery.

September often seems to be a busy time for new admissions. Children go back to school and when they seem tired or under the weather, it can so easily be put down to settling back into the new term. It is sometimes only when they don’t start to pick up that parents realise something isn’t quite right and seek further advice.

Sadly, for some families, that will be the beginning of a journey they could never have imagined.

And that is why it matters so much to us that our Milly Bags are always there.

When a family arrives on the ward, frightened, overwhelmed and completely unprepared for what is happening, we want them to find a Milly Bag waiting for them, filled with the things they don’t even know they need until they need them.

And our bag is so much more than a bag. Whilst it is filled with essentials and comforts, it’s also a hug from a complete stranger. A stranger who, at that moment in time, is someone who totally understands what that family is feeling and experiencing.

A huge thank you to everyone who continues to support us, and also to Kath for stepping in last week, and to Graeme and Mark for today’s delivery.

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Quiz Night a huge success!

A huge thank you to everyone who joined us for our Milly’s Smiles Quiz Night.

The room was filled with fun and laughter, as well as plenty of singing during the music round!

Our pie and peas went down extremely well, and the raffle received incredible support.

Thanks to everyone’s generosity, the evening raised a massive £1,615.50!

Congratulations to the winning team, Tickled Pink, who retained their crown from last year and very generously donated their £50 prize back to Milly’s Smiles.

We are so grateful to our wonderful volunteers who helped everything run so smoothly, selling raffle tickets, serving the pie and peas, working in the kitchen and greeting everyone as they arrived. We simply could not have managed without them all.

A very special thank you must also go to Graeme for delivering such a fantastic quiz and keeping us all entertained throughout the evening.

Thank you to everyone who kindly donated such amazing raffle prizes, and to Tesco stores for donating the condiments!

Finally, thank you to everyone who came along, bought raffle tickets, helped behind the scenes and supported us. We hope you all enjoyed the night as much as we did!

Same time next year?!

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20 More Bags, 20 More Families Supported

Today I had the privilege of heading over to Leeds Children’s Hospital with Graeme, with another delivery of Milly Bags.

This delivery takes the total number of Milly Bags we have provided to families in Leeds to an incredible 490.

I don’t often get the opportunity to make our hospital deliveries myself, so when I do it always feels special. So much of my time is spent behind the scenes at Milly’s Smiles, fundraising, planning, organising, answering emails and making sure everything keeps ticking along. But days like today bring me right back to the reason we do what we do.

As always, the lovely Elaine was there to meet us with her trolley, ready to take the Bags onto the ward. She also had some fabulous handwritten feedback notes from families who have received a Milly Bag, as well as a wonderful photograph that one young boy and his family wanted to share with us.

And what a fabulous photograph it is. It is lovely to see items that we pack into every Milly Bag being used by a child they were chosen for.

Whilst we can’t change a child’s diagnosis, we know that we can provide a small amount of comfort, wrap our arms around the family and offer support with our Milly Bag. Each Bag says we see you, we understand what you are going through, and we care. We want families to know that we are thinking about them.

Thank you, Elaine, for always giving us such a lovely welcome, and to the families who took the time to share their words with us. And a particularly big thank you to one very special young man for allowing us to share his fabulous photograph.

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Coffee, Cake & Conversation… and a room full of understanding

Last week we held our second SOULS Coffee, Cake & Conversation morning, and what a lovely morning it was.

We welcomed lots of new faces, alongside some familiar ones, and what really struck us was how different everyone’s story was.

Some had lost their child relatively recently, while for others many years had passed. Their children were different ages when they died and the circumstances of their loss were different too.

But none of that mattered.

We talked about our children. We shared memories, thoughts and feelings. There was laughter, there were tears, and there were those moments when somebody said something and you could see others around the table nodding because they simply understood.

Nobody needed to explain their grief or justify how they were feeling.

The support and love that flowed so naturally around the room was incredibly special to see.

SOULS is for anyone who has experienced the loss of a child. It doesn’t matter whether your child was a baby, a teenager or an adult when they died. It doesn’t matter whether your loss was recent or many years ago. They will always be your child, and you will always be their parent.

And, of course, no Coffee, Cake & Conversation morning would be complete without the cake! A huge thank you once again to the wonderful Emily at Honey Bee Bakery, who treated us to another incredible selection of cakes and brownies. They were absolutely delicious and very much appreciated.

Our next SOULS Coffee, Cake & Conversation morning is:

Friday 5th September
10am – 12 noon

If you’ve lost a child and would like to come along, you will be very warmly welcomed. Come on your own, bring someone with you, stay for ten minutes or stay for the whole morning.

There’s no pressure to talk and no expectation to be anything other than exactly where you are that day.

Just coffee, cake, conversation and people who understand.

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Thank you Honey Bee Bakery!

When we first advertised our new Bereavement Coffee, Cake & Chat Café, we received a lovely message from a lady called Emily, who owns Honey Bee Bakery.

We had never met Emily before, but she very kindly offered to bake cakes and brownies for our Café completely free of charge.

What makes her offer even more special is that Emily isn’t local to us. For both of our first two Cafés she has spent her time baking the most delicious cakes and brownies and then driven all the way from Preston to our unit to drop them off for us.

And they really have been delicious!

It has been lovely to see everyone enjoying them at the Café, and they have actually become a really important part of the morning. There is something about sitting down together with a warm drink and a piece of cake that helps to break the ice, makes conversation a little easier and helps everyone feel more comfortable.

Emily has now incredibly offered to continue baking for our Café for the next three months, until she heads off on maternity leave.

Emily didn’t know us when she first made her offer. She simply saw what we were trying to do and wanted to help, and I think that makes her kindness and generosity even more special.

So, a huge thank you to Emily and Honey Bee Bakery for supporting our little Café, for all the hours spent baking, for travelling from Preston to deliver everything and for helping us create a warm and welcoming space for our bereaved families.

Sometimes kindness really does arrive from Preston in a box full of brownies.

Thank you Emily, you are a very special lady and we are so grateful for everything you are doing for us.

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Another 20 Milly Bags arrive at Ward 86.

Graeme had some lovely company on his latest trip over to Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital, with our longest-standing Trustee, Kath, joining him for the journey.

Together they took 20 more Milly Bags to Ward 86, ready to be given to families arriving following the devastating news that their child has cancer.

They also dropped off a box of our specially designed Journals at the Transplant Unit. These give families somewhere to document their time through transplant, recording everything from important medical information to thoughts, feelings and memories along the way.

And there was a really lovely surprise whilst they were unloading the bags…..Graeme and Kath bumped into Jemma and little Raenah!  We only recently had the privilege of meeting this beautiful family at the fundraising day held for Milly’s Smiles, so it was especially lovely for our team to see them again.

With these latest 20 bags safely at Ward 86, we have now provided an incredible 1,140 Milly Bags to families at Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital.

1,140 families who, at one of the most frightening and overwhelming moments of their lives, have been reminded that someone is thinking of them.

Thank you to everyone who donates, fundraises and believes in what we do, together we are so proud to be making a difference every single day.

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Packed with love, bound for Cambridge!

Yesterday, another 20 Milly Bags began their journey to Ward C2 at Addenbrooke’s Hospital, bringing the total number we have delivered there to 60.

We began supporting Ward C2 with our Milly Bags last November, and whilst we may never meet the families who receive them, every bag provided is packed with love, in the hope that it not only offers practical support but also lets families know that someone, somewhere, is thinking about them and truly understands what they are going through.

We feel incredibly privileged that Milly’s Smiles can be there for these families, thank you to everyone who continues to support us and believe in what we do. Together we make a difference every single day.

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A Welly Full of Kindness!

Sometimes a fundraiser comes along that completely captures the heart of Milly’s Smiles, and this is exactly one of those moments.

The children and staff at St Edward’s CE Academy, Cheddleton have spent the past year walking alongside one of their own pupils and their family following a childhood cancer diagnosis.

As a school, they wanted to support one of the charities that had been there for the family, so their wonderful Pupil Council came up with the most thoughtful idea.

Every child was invited to bring an old welly, planted with colourful summer flowers, to create a beautiful display outside their Community Garden. The wellies represented everyone walking alongside their pupil and family, while the bright flowers reflected hope, kindness and brighter days ahead.

Alongside the display, the PTFA organised a bright coloured non-uniform day, and together they raised an incredible £373 for Milly’s Smiles.

This is such a unique fundraiser and one that has truly touched our hearts. It’s never about the money raised, although we are incredibly grateful. It’s about the thought and care that goes into it.

The symbolism of everyone bringing a welly to show they were walking alongside one of their own perfectly reflects everything Milly’s Smiles stands for. Supporting families, being there when life changes in an instant, and reminding them that they never have to face that journey alone.

To everyone at St Edward’s CE Academy, thank you. Thank you to your amazing Pupil Council, your PTFA, every member of staff, every family and every child who brought along a welly and made this possible.

This is such a beautiful fundraiser, and one we will all remember.

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When Kindness Comes Full Circle

On Saturday we had the privilege of attending a wonderful charity fun day at The Commercial in Harle Syke, organised by the amazing Tara in support of Milly’s Smiles.

The day was filled with kindness, generosity and community spirit, but the highlight for us was meeting little Raenah and her beautiful family.

After already supporting Liam through his own cancer diagnosis and treatment, the family were dealt another unimaginable blow when two-year-old Raenah was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia earlier this year.

Meeting them reminded us exactly why Milly’s Smiles exists.

Jemma told us how receiving their Milly Bag in those first overwhelming hours at hospital took away so much of the stress and worry. Having the essentials already there meant they could stop thinking about what they didn’t have, and focus completely on what mattered most… being with their little girl.

Those words will stay with us for a very long time.

As we were leaving, Raenah’s grandma completely surprised us by donating two huge boxes filled with toiletries for future Milly Bags. It was such a thoughtful gift and perfectly sums up this incredible family. Despite everything they have been through, they are already helping other families facing the same journey.

A huge thank you to Tara, everyone at The Commercial, all of the volunteers, sponsors, everyone who donated raffle prizes, and every single person who came along to support the day. Together you’ve not only raised vital funds for Milly’s Smiles, but you’ve helped ensure more families receive support when they need it most.

It was an absolute privilege to meet you all, and we send all our love to Raenah, Liam, Jemma, Hadleigh and Ehzrai.